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Back in the year 2006, I made a trip to Canberra for an interview at a medical college. I figured to arrange lodging after getting there, however when I arrived, a large conference was taking place and every single youth hostels and affordable lodging were completely sold out.

Coming from Singapore, I considered the possibility of spend the night at the airport – but soon learned that airport, unlike Singapore’s, closes around the clock. Not knowing what my next move should be and growing worried, I caught public transport and started wandering near the casino, believing I might spend those hours somewhere that was open 24/7. Admittedly, this plan in the best shape to succeed at the admissions interview the following day, however, being a cash-strapped student, a pricey hotel was out of reach.

We could all use more individuals with such compassion.

I must have looked lost since a woman saw me walking aimlessly through the city center and wondered if everything was alright. I explained my predicament and right away she suggested I could crash on the ground of her dormitory at the Australian National University – a perfect solution, as that’s where the important interview was the following day. Generously, she also provided me some free dinner: one of the stuffed baguettes she had from her work shift. I was able to use the bathroom and somewhere safe and safe to spend the night.

Looking back, I now understand the enormous leap of faith she accepted as a young woman allowing a man who was a complete stranger stay in her room. Back then I was in a bubble of male privilege and did not consider to the potential danger. Today, as a parent, it astounds me she offered that help – yet deeply appreciative.

I never did go to ANU, and I lost touch with the student afterwards, yet her memory has stayed with me that incredible gesture of generosity. It is my wish karma has rewarded her generosity many times over. Our society requires more folks with such compassion.